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		<title>I Won? Didn&#8217;t Know I Was IN a Contest</title>
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Jack laughed out loud when the letter came.&#8220;I won a sales contest,&#8221; he told us later, &#8220;and I didn&#8217;t even know I was in it.&#8221;Jack, a freelance printing salesman, was one of our steadiest customers at the photo lab. He wasn&#8217;t really a photographer, but he sold full color brochures and picture postcards, and his [...]]]></description>
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<div><br/><br/><br/>Jack laughed out loud when the letter came.<br/><br/>&#8220;I won a sales contest,&#8221; he told us later, &#8220;and I didn&#8217;t even know I was in it.&#8221;<br/><br/>Jack, a freelance printing salesman, was one of our steadiest customers at the photo lab. He wasn&#8217;t really a photographer, but he sold full color brochures and picture postcards, and his customers never had good photos of their facilities, so he supplied them.<br/><br/>Simply to ensure that no sale got away from him, he bought a cheap 4&#215;5 view camera and learned to take the photos his customers needed. And he brought all his film processing to us.<br/><br/>He didn&#8217;t know that the photos he took were better than most of the work that came in from &#8220;real&#8221; photographers. And I doubt he would have cared if he had known. Jack never claimed to be anything but a salesman &#8211; just doing the job he enjoyed.<br/><br/>Then came &#8220;The Letter.&#8221; The company that printed all his color postcard orders notified him that he was their salesman of the year, that he&#8217;d outperformed the next competitor by 4-to-1. They awarded Jack a cash prize, a trip and a nice engraved plaque.<br/><br/>He stuck the money in the bank, put the plaque on a wall, and took a few days off in Jamaica. But as soon as possible, he was back out on the roads, knocking on doors.<br/><br/>He enjoyed helping people put a better face on their businesses. That&#8217;s the way he saw his work.<br/><br/>I guess a psychologist might say he was &#8220;inner directed.&#8221;<br/><br/>But time moved on, I left the photo lab, and now, decades later, I&#8217;m a writer living in Japan.<br/><br/>And last week I got an unexpected phone call from my long-distance phone carrier. They tell me I was their biggest non-corporate customer for the three-month period just ended, and they wanted to send me a prize to express their appreciation.<br/><br/>During the last several months I&#8217;d been doing a series of one-hour interviews for a new book I was working on. Thus, I&#8217;d spent many hours on the phone, racking up the minutes, and now they wanted to give me a prize.<br/><br/>That&#8217;s when I remembered Jack.<br/><br/>He was just doing the job he had set for himself. So was I. He enjoyed what he was doing. So did I. For him, winning their contest was a nice little surprise, but otherwise irrelevant.<br/><br/>In my case also, the wristwatch they sent just went on a shelf. I suppose I&#8217;ll give it to one of my grandkids the next time I see them.<br/><br/>And I keep on doing the job I enjoy.<br/><br/>Meantime, as I look around the Internet, it&#8217;s easy to identify the people who, like Jack, really enjoy what they&#8217;re doing. Their websites have a different feel, a personality. Their eBooks give real, solid, usable information. Their email gets read, not deleted.<br/><br/>They&#8217;re the ones with the crowds of customers, the masses of fans and followers thronging their websites.<br/><br/>The public is rewarding them, but these achievers don&#8217;t dwell too much on the prizes and awards. Oh, don&#8217;t get me wrong. They like the big earnings and the popularity. That&#8217;s all pleasant, but their real pleasure is the job they do.<br/><br/>They love writing their eBooks, producing their ezines, running their Internet businesses. Giving value.<br/><br/>And you can be sure that if they weren&#8217;t enjoying it, they&#8217;d instantly go do something else instead.<br/><br/>But not everybody recognizes how important it is to give value.<br/><br/>That last eBook you produced: of course most of the information in it came from you&#8230; surely you didn&#8217;t just drag it together from bits and scraps you lifted from here and there around the Web?<br/><br/>And your ezine &#8211; I&#8217;m sure you don&#8217;t scrounge around and grab up whatever article is at hand five minutes before the mailing deadline. (Or 2 hours after?)<br/><br/>And your website? We&#8217;ve all read article after article warning that a page with nothing but banners, links and buttons &#8211; a flea market site &#8211; is a total waste of time.<br/><br/>So why do we all still see them?<br/><br/>Two things I can guarantee: first, visitors to such a website leave almost immediately because they sense no personality; second, such sites are done by people who feel they don&#8217;t have anything of their own to give.<br/><br/>This is tragic. Everyone has something valuable to give. Most people just haven&#8217;t ever done a personal inventory, so they don&#8217;t know all the things they have to offer.<br/><br/>In a future article, I may talk about how you go about doing that kind of inventory, but for now, just remember this.<br/><br/>If you&#8217;re enjoying what you&#8217;re doing, and you&#8217;re giving it everything you&#8217;ve got, you&#8217;ll win contests &#8211; even the ones you didn&#8217;t know you were in.<br/><br/><br/><br/><a href=''>http://www.google.com</a></div>
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